even though you never touch its coattails.
--- Clarence Darrow
Can you recall the times in your life when you stumbled over the truth—when you realized what your true inner calling is, or the kind of person you wish to spend your life with, or what family truly means—even if only for a brief moment?
Most of the time we let these moments pass us by because our ego doesn’t allow our soul to fully absorb what’s holding its attention.
Our ego diverts us back to our worries about what we have to do tomorrow, or our insecure need to regain our traction on the hamster wheel to nowhere we’ve been sprinting on in our job, or our impulsive desire to follow up with so many people so we can feel as if we know everyone—while in truth we know no one.
Due to our constant preoccupations, we turn a blind eye to that faintly perceptible feeling inside instead of letting it grow.
Here’s my simple advice: go back to those moments in your life when you actually felt something. Remember those feelings, give them room to freely evolve, and learn what they came into your heart to teach you. This is your passion.
Anthony Silard is the president of The Center for Social Leadership, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization based in Washington, DC and the author of the Simon & Schuster book The Connection: Link Your Passion, Purpose, and Actions to Make a Difference in the World. To receive Smile, It's Monday every other week, enter your email here (1-step only). To support The Center for Social Leadership's Young Leaders Program for disadvantaged youth either directly or through Amazon.com purchases, click here.