Monday, February 11, 2019

Smile, It’s Monday: Your Weekly Wake-up Call to Build Meaningful Relationships

Most social media is neither. 
---  Anthony Silard

This is a bold statement. Please allow me to back it up. First of all, social media is often not social. Why? Because it doesn’t generate the fulfillment of a social life.

When you go to a party, or go on a hike with a friend, or eat lunch with someone you care about, these activities call upon your social abilities and fulfill a dimension of your life, the part of you that needs and desires to relate to other people. For these reasons, these activities are called “social.”

Social media, on the other hand, is a poor substitute: hunching over a screen typing in information about yourself and broadcasting it to others while reading the information they in turn type into their keypads or keyboards about themselves while hunched over their screens does not adequately fulfill our vital need to socialize.

Neither are most social media posts ‘media’ in the sense of reporters reporting the news. The viewing of vacation photos or a former classmate’s diatribe about politics is not exactly the news.

Such sharing of information is not the “news” in pure, distilled form, only contacts sharing unfiltered details of their lives 99+ percent of which are too trivial for any news outlet designated with the task of sifting through such submissions to print. In other words, Facebook is too much face and not enough book.

This week, design some strategies to spend less time on your phone and more time connecting with real people in real time.

Anthony Silard is the president of The Center for Social Leadership, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization based in Washington, DC and the author of the Simon & Schuster book The Connection: Link Your Passion, Purpose, and Actions to Make a Difference in the World. To receive Smile, It's Monday every other week, enter your email here (1-step only). To support The Center for Social Leadership's Young Leaders Program for disadvantaged youth either directly or through purchases, click here.

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